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What to Write on a Wedding Gift Envelope (With Examples)

On the front, write a short blessing, like “Best wishes” or “Blessings for a happy married life”. On the back or bottom, write your full name and family name so the couple knows who it’s from. Don’t write the amount. Below are ready-to-copy wishes for friends, family and colleagues.

Updated 4 November 2026 · 4 min read

What goes where

PlaceWhat to writeExample
Envelope frontA short blessingBest wishes for a happy married life
Envelope backYour full name and family nameFrom Rohan & Priya Sharma (Pune)
Gift box tagBoth: blessing + namesWith love, the Iyer family
Card insideA personal line in your own wordsSo happy for you both!
NeverThe amount–

For a friend

  • So happy for you both! Here’s to a lifetime of adventures together.

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  • From late-night chai to your wedding day: love you, and congratulations!

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  • Wishing you a marriage full of laughter, good food and long conversations.

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For family

  • With blessings for a long, happy and healthy married life.

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  • May your home always be full of love, light and laughter. With blessings from all of us.

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  • Wishing you both a lifetime of togetherness. With love and blessings.

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For a colleague

  • Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness. Warm regards,

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  • Congratulations on your wedding! Best wishes from all of us at the office.

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  • Wishing you a beautiful journey together.

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Short, for the envelope front

Envelope etiquette

  1. Use a shagun envelope. A decorated envelope is customary; plain white is fine too.
  2. Odd amounts. Shagun traditionally ends in 1 (₹501, ₹1,101); many add a one-rupee coin.
  3. Names in full. Include your family name or city at big weddings where many people share a first name.
  4. Couples and families. Write “Rohan & Priya” or “The Sharma family”.
  5. Hand it over. Give it to the couple at the reception or to their parents.

Writing names on a gift box

For a wrapped gift, tie a tag or stick a label on the top where it won’t be torn off with the paper. Write the blessing first and your names below, e.g. “Wishing you a lifetime of happiness: Anil, Meera & family”. If you’re delivering the gift to their home after the wedding, add a card inside the box too.

Gifts that go with the envelope

Frequently asked questions

What should I write on a wedding shagun envelope?

A short blessing on the front (“Best wishes”, “Shubh Vivah”) and your full name and family name on the back. Don’t write the amount.

Should I write the amount on the envelope?

No. The amount stays private; only your name and wishes go on the envelope.

How do I write names for a couple or family?

“From Rohan & Priya Sharma” for a couple, or “With love, the Iyer family” for a family.

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